Pride!

What does the Rainbow Flag Represent?  Pride of course.  But have you ever wondered why the Gay Pride intitiative has been ongoing for so many years?  Self confidence is lacking in so many, and the LGBT Community has had it really hard.  Growing up listening to so many people say that you are an abomination can take it's toll.   How many times have you been told you're going to hell?  What's wrong with you?  Laughed at?  Excluded?  Made fun of?  False friendships that end in a joke. 

And those are the easy ones.  What about the LGBT teens that get thrown out on the street by their oh so loving parents?  Beaten?  Raped?  Or Worse? 

The fact is, there are people that which love to hate, and after all the prementioned events, self confidence is nowhere to be found.  

So we do our best to fight back with logic.  There is this overwhelming desire to set the haters straight.  To win the argument.   To gain that bit of acceptance and love that was denied by our abusers.  

Well Fuck em.  They abused us, so good riddence.  They should have no more power over us. 

Born, Choice, and everything in between

Everyone has their own sexuality they are born with which is as unique as a fingerprint.   Life's influences will also mold a person's sexuality.  Beautiful women in the 1500s were plump, while beautiful women today are Barbie clone twigs.  Well in the United States anyway.  This is due to the culture we live in. 

Yes, the way we are raised has an influence on our sexuality.   Yes, we are born with our own sexuality. 

I did say Fuck em didn't I?   I thought I did.  Lemme Bold it so there's no mistake.  Fuck em!!!  Fuck the hataz!!!  We no like you no mo!  Go away, Stay Away!  Fuck em and their propaganda too... 

The haters who made us feel worthless are still making us feel worthless.  Why?  Because we want to be accepted by our abusers.  They will never accept us.  Which is fine by me.  Why does a woman who gets beaten every day crawl back to her violent husband trying to be better for him?  Because he convinced her that she was the one with the problem, and therefore she tries desperately to make him accept her by trying harder and harder to make things perfect.   Homophobic assholes are abusive, and yet we try so hard to be accepted by them, and I ask myself why we aren't divorcing them?  Well, let's divorce them shall we. 

Divorce

• You were born gay:  Good for you!  There is nothing wrong with being gay, and I wish you a long life of happiness. 
• You chose to be gay:  Good for you!  There is nothing wrong with being gay, and I with you a long life of happiness. 
• You are somewhat inbetween:  Good for you! 
• No matter what you classify yourself as, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are perfect just the way you are, and I wouldn't change you for the world. 

What does it matter if it's a choice?  If it was a choice, it was your choice to make.  You're not going to go to hell, and the end of the world won't be your fault.   If you were born that way, then thats the way you were born.  It doesn't matter.  

I hope our abusers can prove that it's a choice.  Because if they can, then we have every right to make that choice, and choosing to go the route of the LGBT is not wrong.  If they can prove that it's a choice, then we live in a free country and they have no right to make that choice for us.  The Pursuit of Happiness is a Constitutional right we all have.  Therfore we have the right to pursue happiness in the arms of someone else of the same gender.  

The argument of being born this way or being a choice only matters because our abusers put it in our heads that it matters.  If their God says being gay is a sin, then so be it.  Their God may or may not be my God.  My God loves gay people.   I thank God we live in a country that has the freedom of religion.  Because I can choose a religion where being gay is not a sin.   God can love me for me and my gay lover too, and when we pray he wraps is big ethereal arms around us with love and support.  

Therefore I have a message to our abusers.   To those who keep us as substandard citizens.  

Message: